Goals and Dreams
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FEELING STUCK IN LIFE- WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?
There comes a time in our life where we feel stuck. Do you want to live life on your own terms but somehow you are unable to? Do you want to make an identity but you cannot proceed further? Why do you get such a feeling? Are you lost? All you feel is confusion, nervousness and you think of yourself as of no value.
Getting stuck in life is common, as we cannot control our life completely, somethings are not in our hands. We can only make difference in our lives, not others. We can change our nature, not the rigidity of others. We can be flexible with our thoughts and feelings, and cannot tell others how to judge. We can make peace with ourselves and our soul, in this present time, but it is impossible to cultivate peace in others.
If you feel stuck somewhere in your life and career. This article can provide you with NINE tips on how to get out when you feel stuck.
- Reflect on your life
Self-reflection is important, it tells you about your life back then. You can imagine the difference, how it was before. The free life of school and college, the struggles you went through, the career you choose and made, the decisions you took to become successful, all this will reflect all your thoughts and feelings. Practicing self-reflection will help you in eradicating the regrets and celebrating the achievements of your life. self-reflection will make you less lost in life. It will emerge you from feeling stuck to getting back with much confidence and zeal.
- Set new goals, and prepare a mission statement
Having a set goal in life can lead you to great success and help you in leading a respectable life. One should prepare a goal card and keep it with you, by your side table, study table, on your desk, in your handbag, or wherever it is convenient. See the goal card each time you feel low and dull. When you will feel you cannot achieve your dream, looking up to the goal card will charge you up and your focus will be on your passion. Along with the long-term goal, one should have short-term goals too. Do prepare yourself a mission statement. For example- My mission is to inspire and motivate 1lac people to lead a simple and peaceful life. Ignite a fire among them to discover what is the main aim and true purpose of your life?
- Re-evaluate your overall progress
When we go towards advancement in our lives, evaluating our overall progress becomes important. In this fast life and ever-changing times, you have to re-evaluate your plans and strategies. What you did before to achieve goals, the strategies being used, the course of action taken will help you to improve aim and achieve targets in a better way. Re-evaluation helps you in checking if you are moving in the right direction if not, improvements can be done.
- Write down your strengths
When you are stuck in life, the basic thing you can do is write! Write your feelings and put your heart out on paper. Write down the strengths that took you so far. It will certainly make you feel better. To clear your mind, writing is helpful. Letting go of the thoughts by writing can help you in finding yourself again. Every person is unique in their way. For example, if you have writing skills which can be your strength. So make sure you find one! and it is a very common question asked by an interviewer.
- Learn every single day
Each day you learn something, the best method to learn new thing is by reading! Start your day by reading the newspaper, or download apps for news and blogs. You will learn a new term, what is happening around the world, the new technology evolved, and much more. Open to Learning each day can make you a thinkable and wise person
- Take advice from the elderly
If you think you are lost, and cannot find a way, ask your elderly at home. Seek advice from them. Their experience and knowledge will give you ideas to cope up in life. They are the best teachers in the world. if you do good in life, they appreciate it. If you do any mistake, they will correct you for your good. Listen to them and their advice for achieving goals in life.
- Stay patient and love your journey
When challenges come in your life, stay calm and patiently handle things. Trust your journey of life, God is merciful. Practice patience in every aspect of your life. it will make you strong and confident. Let life unfold on its own, you cannot control the outcome. You have to accept the way it is, sometimes things happen as you plan but sometimes it doesn’t, then something better is coming your way.
- Be honest with yourself
A man is judged by what he says and means. If you cannot commit anything g to anyone then don’t. Say right away!. Be honest with yourself, life, and goals. It isn’t easy but start small. Do not lie to anyone, not even for small things. For example- if you will be late for a meeting then text and say you will be late do not hang them if you are on the way or lie. Lying is not a good habit.
- Don’t overthink too much
Overthinking leads to stress and anxiety. It will make you a dull personality. Instead, staying positive and finding positivity in everything will make you a cheerful and humble person. You will be preferred for any work in the office or at home. Start changing your perceptions towards life and you will see an instant change. You will not get stuck again and again.
To summarise, it is only the mindset we have to work on, you have to relax and unwind yourself by looking back and reading powerful positive affirmations, this will show you your path. Did you find this article helpful? Please give your feedback in the comment section below.
Written By- Mansi Arora
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FEELING STUCK IN LIFE- WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?
There comes a time in our life where we feel stuck. Do you want to live life on your terms, but you are unable to? Do you want to make your identity, and you feel lost? Why do we get such a feeling? All you feel is confusion, nervousness and you think of yourself as ‘of no value’.
Getting stuck in life is common, as we cannot control our life completely, somethings are not in our hands. We can only make difference in our lives, not others. We can change our nature, not the rigidity of others. We can be flexible with our thoughts and feelings, cannot tell others how to judge. We can Instill peace in our mind and soul, but it is not impossible to cultivate the same in others.
If you feel stuck somewhere in your life and career. This article provides you with NINE tips on how to get out when you feel stuck.
- Reflect on your life
Self-reflection is important, it tells you about your life back then. You can imagine the difference, how it was before. The free life of school and college, the struggles you went through, the career you choose and made, the decisions you took to become successful, all this will reflect all your thoughts and feelings. Practicing self-reflection will help you in eradicating the regrets and celebrating the achievements of your life. Self-reflection will make you less lost in life. It will emerge you from feeling stuck to getting back in life with much confidence and zeal.
- Set new goals, and prepare a mission statement
Having a set goal in life can lead you to great success and help you in leading a respectable life. One should prepare a goal card and keep it with you, by your side table, study table, on your desk, or in your handbag. See the goal card each time you feel low and dull. When you will feel you cannot achieve your dream, looking up the goal card will charge you up and your focus will be on your passion. Along with the long-term goal, one should have short-term goals too. Do prepare yourself a mission statement. For example- My mission is to inspire and motivate 1lac people to lead a simple and peaceful life. Ignite a fire among them to discover What is the main aim and true purpose of your life?
- Re-evaluate your overall progress
When we go towards advancement in our lives, evaluating our overall progress becomes important. In this fast life and ever-changing times, you have to re-evaluate your plans and strategies. What you did before to achieve goals, the strategies being used, the course of action taken will help you to improve aim and achieve targets in a better way. Re-evaluation helps you in checking if you are moving in the right direction if not, improvements can be done.
- Write down your strengths
When you are stuck in life, the basic thing you can do is write! Write your feelings and put your heart out on paper. Write down the strengths that took you so far. It will certainly make you feel better. To clear your mind writing is helpful. Letting go of the thoughts by writing can help you in finding yourself again. Every person is unique in their way. For example, if you have writing skills which can be your strength. So make sure you find one, as it is a very common question asked by an interviewer.
- Learn every single day
Each day you learn something, the best method to learn new thing is by reading! Start your day by reading the newspaper, or download apps for news and blogs. You will learn a new term, What is happening around the world, the new technology evolved, and much more. Open to Learning each day can make you a thinkable and wise person
- Take advice from the elderly
If you think you are lost, and cannot find a way, ask your elderly at home. Seek advice from them. Their experience and knowledge will give you ideas to cope up in life. They are the best teachers in the world. if you do good in life, they appreciate it. If you do any mistake, they will correct you for your good. Listen to them and their advice for achieving goals in life.
- Stay patient and love your journey
When challenges come in your life, stay calm and patiently handle things. Trust your journey of life, God is merciful. Practice patience in every aspect of your life. it will make you strong and confident. Let life unfold on its own, you cannot control the outcomes. You have to accept the way it is, sometimes things happen as you plan but sometimes it doesn’t, then something better is coming your way.
- Be honest with yourself
A man is judged by what he says and means. If you cannot commit anything to anyone then don’t. Say right away! Be honest with yourself, life, and goals. It isn’t easy but start small. Do not lie to anyone, not even for small things. For example- if you will be late for a meeting then text and say you will be late, do not hang them if you are on the way or lie. Lying is not a good habit.
- Don’t overthink too much
Overthinking leads to stress and anxiety. It will make you a dull personality. Instead, staying positive and finding positivity in everything will make you a cheerful and humble person. You will be preferred for any work in the office or at home. Start changing your perceptions towards life and you will see an instant change. You will not get stuck again and again.
To summarise, it is only the mindset we have to work on, you have to relax and unwind yourself by looking back and reading powerful positive affirmations, following all these steps, will show you your path. Did you find this article helpful? Please give your feedback in the comment section below if you feel stuck in life, how you overcome and start over again.
Written By- Mansi Arora
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Facing struggles with conviction!
Do you lack confidence while facing struggles? Why? Struggles are considered part of life. Life is all about ups and downs. As nature is doing its routine job, why can’t we? Change is inevitable, every now and then we face struggles in life and employment just as we treasure success. Time never remains the same for everybody!
First! Let us understand the difference between what is challenge and struggle. Challenges are important in life they put you in a state where you are supposed to ask yourself what more you can give to surmount the condition. While struggles interrogate you from inside how will you get out? This is the basic difference between the two!
This article talks about innate things such as patience, inner strength, and support, which we have to work on. Here are some important things to keep in mind as you crossways with a lifetime’s struggles.
- First, start with a single step, as and when you come across a situation if it is to be solved by taking simple actions then take it as soon as possible.
- Second, take care of yourself, do not overthink too much about the situation. Taking wrong decisions and being negative towards the circumstances can even worsen the whole scenario. Work on yourself, on your mind and body by being fit as a fiddle inside out.
- Eat a healthy diet, drink lots of water
- Enroll in a stress management course where you learn mindfulness techniques.
- Practice meditation and take enough sleep.
- Go for a long walk
- Third, Have you ever seen an elastic rubber band, it can be easily bent, stretched, recoiled and it comes back to its original form. A person who is resilient enough to face all the situations can overcome the struggles easily! How? When you are aware of your emotional reactions and know how to control them. You will be able to come up with new ways to solve the problems. When you are robust and flexible enough to any change in life, you have that capacity to withstand any shock that springs up in life
- Fourth, struggles keep you grounded, you cannot see happy times forever, sometimes you are broken and weak, sometimes you have boundations. But all these situations will keep you grounded. You will never become an arrogant person. Facing struggles in life will keep you humble and empathetic.
- Fifth, change your perception towards how you respond, struggles will always be there with us, they come in many forms, such as financial and health crisis, or workplace chaos, homely disputes. You cannot choose what will happen next but you can choose how to respond in a situation. Ask yourself three-question when faced with big blunders in life.
- How immense and serious is the problem?
- Put on your reality glasses and do the reality check.
- The way I see, is it that way?
Once you have undergone these questions by yourself, this might help you in getting better answers.
- Sixth, calm yourself and deal with things with confidence. Take it slow! Do not hurry in taking action. You will save yourself by making more mistakes to compensate for the old. Keeping confidence within you can get you through any struggle. When you believe in yourself that you can face anything in life. then it becomes slightly easy to face the struggles.
- Seventh, control your anger, when you are in angry mode, you can say and do anything which may turn things against you. Having regrets and going on a guilt trip, later on, will make things difficult for you to face.
- Eight, observe and draw strength from other people who have faced so many struggles in life. Learn from their achievements and accomplishments. These people can guide you through. Always make an inner circle of people whom you can trust as they can assist.
- Ninth, Agreed! You would be facing hardship while struggling through major issues but look at the brighter side, going through the struggles, will make you stronger. When you are on brink of thinking that life has no meaning. Understand the fact, God has store something better for you. Take all the struggles as the creation of god. Where you find alternative solutions and think of the struggles of your life as opportunities. You can witness yourself when you are in pain the best of yourself come out then only.
To sum up, Learning can never happen without struggles in life. you should take everything positively. Life would not be interesting if there are no struggles in life. Struggles cause stress in the lives of people. Find the best approach to solve the issues whether in the office or at home. Only hard times prepare us for hurdles and you grow in the life that happy times don’t teach us. When you face and conquer the struggle, there comes a sense of accomplishment in you. You develop emotional and mental strength within you to face anything in life.
Just as, everyone has a different journey in life so as their struggles. If you like the tips on how to face struggles with confidence, then do let me know your thoughts in the comment section below.
Written By – Mansi Arora
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What’s a quote that really speaks to you? And why?
Do you love saving quotes from all the social medial channels? and Which is your favourite quote you have on your mobile as wallpaper?
What is a quote? A quote can be defined as the usage of text or speech which has already been written or uttered by an orator. Well, it is different from the financial quote and quotation mark!
We all love reading and memorising quotes. Therefore, the quote is a replication of sentences, phrases, passage, or any expression taken from a movie, musical, and speech. Further, using quotes in your talking, webinars, seminars or live sessions will show your knowledge and credibility.
Coming up with a quote spontaneously will show you well-read and prepared in your subject. Using quotes in your talking will deliver a better way of conveying things to people. Quotes are also being used as an inspiration to reach your goals. Moreover, quotes, if used will impart/bestow variety, humour and can solidify an argument.
In my opinion, there is one quote that speaks to me is by Rumi, “you are not this hair, not this skin, but a soul that lives within”. This quote expresses that you should not judge people by their physical appearance, rather look for the soul.
The search for self, through soul search probably creates awareness of your identity. The term soul, described as “atman” by ancient Indian philosophers, psyche by the Greek and anima by the Romans, has been considered dweller within, but distinct from the human body. Many consider it immortal, claiming death to be the consequence of the departure of the soul from the body.
So, when this body will take a new form, only the soul transfers. Then, why judge people through their bodies. Judging others will only reflect your true identity. It is been rightly said, do not judge the book by its cover? You will not be considered wise if you will leave the book without seeing what is underneath the cover, without reading its preface or thinking will it be worth pursuing or not.
Observing others through the soul means when you hear them, see their behavioural patterns, the emotions which they depict for themselves and others that is where you get to know the soul of the other person. and, the people who do the opposite are seeing you with their material eyes. That material heart and mind have the veil of ‘Maya above the senses, which focuses on preconditioned thoughts, patterns, experiences, and impressions.
It has been said, realized and true sages can see people by their soul. Then why can’t normal humans can do the same. There is one Russian proverb stating, “people will meet you depending on how you are dressed and says goodbye depending on how wise you seem to be”. You will meet many people through all walks of life in your journey, you may judge them by their clothes, the way they sit, walk and talk. But you will know them through the soul talk when you touch their soul by knowing who they are from inside, their life stories, and struggles. That’s when you know the real soul of a person, and that is how you will be reluctant to meet them again. Because your vibe attracts your tribe.
When you look at the mirror! You must be finding flaws in your skin and the body. God has created you that way and you should take care of your skin and the body by applying natural products and keeping yourself fit and healthy by doing yoga, meditation and exercise.
In this fast pace of life, we are bombarded with technology, new health treatments, beauty injections, and online courses to train and develop you into a transformed person so you are able to face the world with conviction. Which includes: –
- how to get flawless skin through skin treatments and surgeries
- how to get keratin perfect, smooth and shiny hair
- how to get skinny and toned by hitting the gym
- how to speak fluent English
- how to groom yourself
All this sounds good if you are doing it within limits and as per your requirement. Going through all the hardship for getting FIT FOR SOCIETY requires your money, time, and energy. People who are naïve and innocent get into these traps and become another person, which can be damaging for the soul, as you get addicted to these new social rules you may get lost in this ruse of the materialistic world!
To change your persona naturally, First, change your mindset and attitude for positive thinking and doing good to others. Second, Accept the way you are. Third, lead a very simple life, do not get fluctuate or get carried away by all the worldly and materialistic desires that coax you to get possession of things and people which can become obsession later on. Fourth, look at others also by their soul treat them accordingly, then only people will go beyond your physicality and will see you as a soul.
To put it all together, This mindful and soulful quote by Rumi conditions the very essence of our existence of human beings, and the importance of the soul. That you are more than your body. Every human is a god’s gift, existing in this universe as energy. Yes! You are the light in this life. and people should see you like this, kind, generous, and humble with a glorious heart. At last, if you have a favourite quote to tell, do mention it in the comment section below.
Written By – Mansi Arora
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